12/7/97 to 12/27/04
I lost a loyal companion two day's after Christmas. The memories I will cherish with dede are many. She was more than a pet. She was a working dog. She protected me. She watched my back.
We travelled the country together. We marched in rallies together. She didn't care if I came in last place. She didn't care I dressed her up in goofy costumes on Halloween. She didn't care I was the most hated democrat in the 49th ward. She just wanted to be involved.
She was "Paws 4 Peace."
I will always remember you.
Peace Dede... Craig
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. My favorite photo. Dede and I in Rhode Island. This was our Rainbow bridge.
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My heart is with you Craig. I know what you are going through.
All my best
Charlie...Jake,Carnaby,Cody, and Lucy
They made my life worth living
I can relate to your feelings Craig, and I send my deepest sympathy. I've lost several dogs, some road kills, one from old age (easier to accept but after 13 years Goldie was the best friend as a hunter, companion, watch dog etc, a man could ever have.. I've never had a dog that was as smart and understanding, obedient and loyal as her.), and one from disease.. COCO, my chocalate lab started having siezures around age 5, medication helped, but affected his behavior, when I thought he was better, I took him off the meds and he was ok for a while, but then had a siezure that left him near dead.. after nursing him for a week or so he finally gave up on Christmas Eve. ( I am sobbing thinking of that , though it was years ago) the worst part was that my girls new of his poor condition, and Erin asked me how he was on Christmas at my mom's, and I could barely get it out that he had died the night before. Obviuosly we both were in tears, and some people noticed but did not ask. THEN to really get my goat, Sue calls the next day and heartlessly says " thanks for F'n up Erin's Christmas!" What was I to do? lie about it? (that was really cold and painful) Anyway, that's most of the reason I have not had a dog since. Corine wanted to get me another Lab, but I told her no, I'm not going through these kind of times again, and don't feel I have the time to really spend with a cannine companion, as should be required to train and enjoy. I don't like to have dogs penned up , wanting to play or hunt, or spend other quality time together. DEDE will be missed at the trials events, hang in there Craig, she maybe gone but not forgotten.. you can get another dog, but it will not replace her. Guess it's not a time to wish you a Happy new Year, but to wish you a good one....Bill
Craig,
I am so sorry about DeDe. The kindest thing for the dog is usually the hardest thing for us.
Jan Hicks, CPDT
Paw Law Dog Training & Doggie Daycare
Roselle, IL
www.pawlaw.com
My thoughts are with you and De De. I hope she and Mr. Piggy (my cat) guide us through our struggles down here. In my 'religion' we know it as 'the summerland', where we leave this space and rejuvenate for our next reincarnation. May you meet again.
T
Really sorry to hear that Craig. Been there and know how painful it is. My Dogs At Trials page was originally only for photos I've taken, but I'll put up a photo of dede on there, unless you've another you'd prefer?
Andy
Dear Craig,
I am so sorry about Dee Dee. I would have gone to Blum with you, but I understand why you took Stacy. I would have been a crying mess and would have made you feel worse. She is now with "Chief of Peace. "Try to have a nice evening and give Cota a big hug from me.
Karen
"I have sometimes thought of the final cause of dogs having such short lives and I am quite satisfied it is in compassion to the human race; for if we suffer so much in losing a dog after an acquaintance of 10 or 12 years, what would it be if they were to live double that time?" -Sir Walter Scott
I stood beside your bed last night, I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying, You found it hard to sleep.
I whined to you so softly as you brushed away a tear,
"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."
I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached down to me.
I was with you at the shops today, Your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.
I want to reassure you, that I'm not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said "It's me."
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.
I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
In the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over...I smile and watch you yawning
And say "goodnight, God bless, I'll see you in the morning."
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll rush across to geet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...then come home to be with me.
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Craig: I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Until you've lost a Dog it's impossible to know ho much it can mean to you. I have a big yellow Lab named, "Willi Bauer" who means just about as much to me as my wife. He's right here waiting for me to go feed the horses (and him). A good dog is one of God's greatest gifts. Try to hang in there. It'll all be o.k. When you're ready a new dog really needs you, so don't be afraid to take the plunge. They are truly wonderful animals. Jay L.
Sorry...about DeDe, she was your best dogfriend ever!
Noel .
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